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Just sharing with you friends ,my personal view about the modern day relationships, really I don’t understand some facts ,just few points on which when I think , I really feel do love really exist……..or  now a days, its just merely a status update.

                       A boy meets a gal,she is attractive some where he feels,get crazy about her,tries to get her phone number,finds out her place,they start to talk,fall in love,as some cases it breaks up soon for silly reason,in some cases because of some solid reasons and some time it becomes a success and ends at marriage…………………

That was just an outline……………..so you must  be thinking what’s the point in it,its general fact all know it well.what to comment on it…………………….

           Ya I know it’s a general fact but what about love!!!!...........i have seen cases where love break up for small reasons……I would like to share some……..

A boy break up with gal just because she was not ready to tell him the password of her fb account,naturally he doubted  she must be in relationship with others too and they broke up……………..mere just for a password!!!!!.......

 A gal called her boyfriend at mid night 12, his phone was engaged……..she thought he must be dating someone else too ,finally they broke up…………………….

Another scenario,if you are a boy take care of this………;-0, if you talk to a gal,who is more pretty than your galfriend,for god sake even by mistake don’t talk about her when you are with your galfriend………at first she would be jealous (gals cant handle it ….;-0),if she is not understanding,……………..finally your relationship can be in trouble…………………….

Hmmmmmmmm if all these is love,where is the trust between them…….if a gal is insecure that her boyfriend can leave her or a guy is insecure when he saw his galfriend talking to some one…………….what the hell is that ,they don’t even have a minimum confidence in them about their love!!!!!!!!...............

Another thing about which I feel confussed is that,the scenario after break up ,for one thing its same in both case …………..both gals and guys spend more times on tears…….they just cut contacts with every one……..just they loss interest in everything……boy would start to call the girl “bitch” remember up to yesterday he used to call her “jannu”…………:-0 and girl will call him as “cheater”.…whom she use to call “mah love”………….;-0……this all happens !!!..........one thing is more interesting to note!!!!  These happens to only those people who were at least somewhat sincere to each other………,now people who do these things has also got reduced,its an old style…….;-0…………………….now a days the most intresting funda is that go to your fb account……..change your status  from “I am in a relationship” to “ single”or even on the second day of break up I have seen people writing “ am single and ready to minkle”…………………;-0

Are you laughing!!!!!!!!!............about you I don’t know,about me yes……………..last day I met a gal,I just sended her a request on fb,her relationship status was “ am engaged” …….;-0, I thought she was engaged .”ring engaged”………..but she seemed to be very young hardly 18, I felt why she got engaged so soon,……..then I thought may be she have found her love!!!!!!!!!........................last day I just saw the update she is single….i was shocked for a moment………..i just went through her fb account in detail…………and you know ………..in last one year she has been engaged 12 times and she  have updated “am in a relationship” 12 times……..so a total 24 times she have got engaged ………….;-0,and more intresting fact was that……..when ever she updated she is in a relationship………..oh my god so many comments..who is he, what he doing…………..and all and all…………………so what you wish when you update single…………..i don’t understand,…

One more interesting thing I have noted ,many of my friends I know ,for love there are certain demands too…..strange!!.........it was strange for me

If you are a guy check if you have these,no matter how you look

·      Are You are rich?

·      Have got a job in good company,its better if you have your own company

·      You keep your pocket loose?

·      Ready to buy the most expensive gifts for your galfriend?

·      You can pamper her all time?

·      You have got your car?

If  for all answer is yes you will have a girlfriend no doubt,but look here only few will be there who are really interested in you rest all will be interested in  what all you could do!!!..................................and you only make her galfriend,and when she leaves you ….no doubt for a better option……..;-0 you will call her bitch…and you will start thinking all girls are like that…………look dude……whatever you call her bitch!! Or anything else…is there any use…………………???? Nothing is going to effect her………….

And if you are a gal,check that if you have these

Qualities

·      You are beautiful,?

·      You have got a killing smile?

·      Ready to make love whenever he wishes?

These much things are enough yaar,remember gal if you are loved because of the above qualities…………….really I would say,he is treating you as a thing which he can use when he wants……..because he will never find time to see the inside beauty in you……………………

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I know some true people also,I know people who trust each other,who make love from heart not through words,for whom love is more important than money,they respect each other…………………………..because they don’t make love mere a status update…….they love from heart,…………..try to find your true love………..rather than spending time to mourn on past,……………..

You may be asking where to find it………….i know no body has got a tag on there head……………..but someone is there………………

Dedicated to all my friends, those who are in love make your love more beautiful understand each other,rather than talking about love24 hour ,do that …….;-0 but also spend time to strength your trust on your partner,

those who are alredy lost in love….wait yaar,learn from your mistakes,don’t forget there are enough fishes in the sea…..choose wisely,god has given you new chance, and those of my friends who are single………..” be ready to minkle “………;-0 not just to update your relationship status……………………..but to update the person inside you……….love is a beautiful feeling,,,,,,,,,being loved  is a beautiful feeling .dont miss it ………….;-)…………………………for now keep working,remember love feels good but it wont cook food for you………………..:-)………….to enjoy it you need to work too ……..;-)